Friendship (轉載)

(To someone who is very speical)

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share,
grow or learn.They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

一時糊塗

從沒有感覺到愛上，或是從厭惡到愛上，你說那一種需要更多的愛情投資？

我還沒有忘記當年對你的厭惡，所以我也不後悔當時所作的決定。只是，我經常都懷疑，你會否為當年的說話感到後悔。某天，當你跟別人談到這段往事時，你會否笑著說那只是一時糊塗？（就像今天我對他一樣）

淡淡地否認當年的說話。

喜歡你

喜歡你，
只因為你在我感到寂寞的時候，
恰巧說了一句動聽的話。
是我貪戀那一刻的溫柔。
但我很清楚，
這些便宜的溫柔並不可長久。
比起那一刻的溫柔，
我更慶幸看清現實的這宵。

反思後的答案

最近我經常都在想：我真的愛你嗎？

我想，我是真的很喜歡你，但這離愛情還很遠。

如果我就這樣陷進去，往後的日子，每當我回頭再看今天的時候，大概我會取笑自己的傻氣，甚至質疑自己為什麼會喜歡上這樣的一個小子，弄得一鼻子灰。

上癮

一直都知自己很容易上癮 。迷上的可以是一個行為，一件事物，甚至是一個人。無論迷上的是什麼，對生活都會帶來沖擊。迷上一個行為或者一件事情總比迷上一個人好。因為死物很少會帶來傷痛，而且迷上的時候，亦不比迷上一個人所需要那麼多精力。

只是每次發現自己迷上了的時候，已經為時已晚，想抽身已經不再可能。唯有等待時間將那份熱情蒸發掉。可是，時間的長度又從來不由我來控制。當時間發揮效用以後，從前迷戀上的日子就會變得好像不曾存在一樣。

P.S.
即使為時已晚，我還是希望盡快的將你賣掉。

在心中

有些事情，你不要多問，就讓它留在心中，才可留住它的美。

有些事情放在心中，你就永遠不會知道答案，不會知道自己對它的了解有幾多。或者你自以為已經很了解，但當你把它覆述一片時，你才會發現你不明白的地方，還有很多很多。

到底什麼時候進，什麼時候退？

這大概是我們一生中會不斷遇到的試題，而且誰也無法告知你肯定的答案。

逃

我還沒搞清是因為喜歡你，才感到跟你一起很快樂；
還是因為跟你一起很快樂，所以越來越喜歡你。
越來越貪戀跟你一起虛耗時光的同時，
亦想趕快把你推開。
是因為相識的時間太短，了解太淺；
是因為怕應驗了他的預言；
是因為自己沒有準備；
是因為傷口還未結疤；
是因為．．．．．．。